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What is Seduction?
What
does it mean? When you hear the
word Seduction, what images swim
into your view?
Unfortunately, there are those
of us who think it has something
to do with finding ways to convince
a woman to drop her resistance long
enough for us to have sex with her
(before she changes her mind).
So we try all kinds of things
to "seduce" her, hoping to stumble
upon something that works. We click
all over the screen in frustration,
trying to push all her buttons and
levers in the correct sequence -
like some bizarre version of the
game Myst. It is a lot of work,
but worth it if we manage to "get
lucky". After all, this is seduction!
Well, this is dead wrong.
This is not seduction. This is
manipulation.
So what is seduction then? Dictionaries
generally have two definitions for
the word:
1.
The act of leading astray
2. Something that attracts or charms
What I am talking about is the
second definition. Looked at in
this light - something that attracts
or charms - there is a quiet beauty
in the notion of seduction.
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Do you know what women think about when they hear the word seduction?
They think of torch lights and tangos, sand and sarongs - that's what women think about! |
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Women everywhere are starved
for seduction, for passion, for
romance.
I believe that seduction is the
number one element we are missing
in all of our interactions with
women today. It is the missing ingredient
in all our relationships. It doesn't
matter if you just met her five
minutes ago, or if you've been married
to her for 30 years. Women, all
women, will still respond to the
same things they have always responded
to.
I am often asked in interviews
to describe the concept of Enlightened
Seduction in one sentence. Well,
the phrase that comes closest to
the essence of what I do is this:
I teach men that women are
beautiful...
Now, that might sound like nothing
more than idealistic and florid
...that one core belief that
separates true lovers of women from
pickup artists...
rhetoric - especially in our modern
age of cynicism and mistrust - but
the truth is, when you start to
believe that women are beautiful,
they will start to believe it
too.
It is that one core belief that
separates true lovers of women from
pickup artists, one night stand
cowboys, and heartbreakers with
a whole bouquet of empty promises.
In fact, with that mindset,
all things are possible with women,
and they will open themselves up
to you in amazing ways.
This has nothing to do with masking
your desires as a man or positioning
yourself as the "nice guy". Women
know right away what I am all about.
Even though I am friends with all
women, they would never place me
in the "let's just be friends" category.
Always remember that women are
complicit in their own seduction.
They WANT to be seduced. A common
theme I hear from women all the
time is the feeling they have that
there are no longer any real men.
So here's the thing: discovering
the secrets of women, and learning
about the kinds of things they universally
respond to, is very powerful. It
is truly the only thing that works
with women! It is the only way to
have exceptional women in your life
on a consistent basis - women who
can't stop thinking about you...
who dream about you when you are
not around.
These are the kinds of things
that "Naturals" have known for centuries.
Naturals are men who are at ease
in the land of women. And a woman
will always respond to a Natural
because he shares in her secrets.
She simply can't help it.
Zan Perrion
Copyright
© 2004 Alabaster Communications
Inc
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