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The Real Secret of Attraction
Ask
yourself... what is the real secret
of attraction? Think about that
for a second... what makes a man
irresistible to women? What is the
essence of charm? Why do men like
Casanova still fascinate us today?
Why do women always gravitate toward
certain men - inviting them willingly
into their lives, their arms, and
their dreams? Is it looks, power,
or money?
We have this notion that all
men who are successful with women
must have something going for them
that the average man does not.
Well, that notion is correct...
However, contrary to everything
you have been led to believe, it
is not looks, power, or money. These
are all external elements that we
accumulate to ourselves in the hope
that they will make us appear more
“lovable” to the opposite sex.
Women everywhere know the truth:
what is really attractive to them
is the way a man chooses to move
through life and how he perceives
the world around him.
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Women are not attracted to men who are good looking... they are attracted to men who are attractive.
Big difference! You don't have to be impressive... you just have to be interesting! |
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The problem is that too many
men today have the viewpoint that
it is “us” over here and “them”
over there. Women are viewed as
some kind of enemy, like a force
to be conquered or overcome.
The dating and relationship scene
has changed so much that we can’t
help but feel we are involved in
some kind of an epic struggle or
battle.
Men are over here, arrayed on
There is a subset of men who move among women with ease...
a hill, staring helplessly across
an abyss of silence at women over
there in their walled and imposing
fortress.
There's a subset of men who move
among women with ease...
These rare men are those who
have acquired - who have consciously
learned - the ability to see women
in their natural state, who can
see right through their makeup,
their walls, their insecurities
and their loss.
They see women as they really
are.
Women recognize immediately when
they are in the presence of a man
who likes women, who thinks they
are beautiful, who makes them feel
lovely, who delights in them.
A man who likes women
is liked by women.
They find themselves inexorably
drawn to him, proverbial moths to
the flame.
Who are these men who are allowed
to roam unhindered in the land of
women? And what qualities do they
possess that compel women to allow
them liberties not afforded to other
men?
What sets them apart from you?
Imagine if you, too, could become
one of those rare men that understand
the things that women universally
respond to.
Here's the fundamental question:
Can the art of love be learned?
Can we learn to be the kind of man
that women respond to? Can we learn
ways of being that increase our
aura, our charm, our confidence,
and our entire attractiveness quotient
with women?
...a certain joie
de vivre that makes us irresistible
to women...
Can we learn to live a life that
is purposeful, can we learn to be
more compelling, can we learn how
to live with a certain joie
de vivre that makes us irresistible
to women, a man to be admired and
desired? In other words, can we
actually change?
The answer to all those questions
is emphatically “Yes”. I firmly
believe that natural skills, seduction
skills, can be learned by almost
anyone. I have seen quiet, even
shy, men become charismatic, compassionate,
enlightened seducers and leaders
of men.
Remember this always... women
are complicit in their own seduction...
they want it more than you do...
Every woman wants to be in a
love story... The man who understands
this is forever surrounded by
beauty...
Zan Perrion
Copyright
© 2003 Alabaster Communications
Inc
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